I have been thinking about rebooting since the beginning of December, and after initially going 30+ days without masturbating (still watched porn and edged a crap-ton) I can't get any momentum going. My lack of willpower scares the crap out of me, and I'm afraid I'm going to do something to ruin my relationship because I can't control my urges, and might do something I regret.
I'm so stressed right now. I've been avoiding the forum because I've felt so guilty. I want to stop lusting, I want to stop fantasizing about other women when I'm with my lover, and I want to be in control. I've tried staying off the Internet during my "weak times", but now I realize I don't have any strong times. What would you do in my spot? Any advice would be helpful.
I'm so stressed right now. I've been avoiding the forum because I've felt so guilty. I want to stop lusting, I want to stop fantasizing about other women when I'm with my lover, and I want to be in control. I've tried staying off the Internet during my "weak times", but now I realize I don't have any strong times. What would you do in my spot? Any advice would be helpful.