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Harry Molaski
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Thank you bob. This is an important point for all of us!
I've seen many alcoholics make the mistake of thinking 'it's been such a long time, one drink won't hurt'. A recovering alcoholic can never, ever drink a drop again. For life. Since the scientists seem to be saying fundamentally there's only one addiction, whatever type of substance or behavior is causing us to mess up our brain function doesn't matter. Addiction is addiction. I've come to the conclusion that this means no more P for the rest of my life. Now this can be a frightening idea: forever...
That's why AA takes things one day at a time. A lesser known recovery method, Rational Recovery, states that you can also do this trick: promise yourself all the drink you like in 100 years from now. That is based on the theory that the addiction (the 'Addictive Voice') is based in the part of the brain we share with animals, so it has no concept of time. I like the RR method since it's based on brain studies and science. Unfortunately they are fanatically opposed to the 12 step program of AA. Rational Recovery's method to deal with the addict's inner tug of war is very useful however and deserves a wider audience.
Harry
I've seen many alcoholics make the mistake of thinking 'it's been such a long time, one drink won't hurt'. A recovering alcoholic can never, ever drink a drop again. For life. Since the scientists seem to be saying fundamentally there's only one addiction, whatever type of substance or behavior is causing us to mess up our brain function doesn't matter. Addiction is addiction. I've come to the conclusion that this means no more P for the rest of my life. Now this can be a frightening idea: forever...
That's why AA takes things one day at a time. A lesser known recovery method, Rational Recovery, states that you can also do this trick: promise yourself all the drink you like in 100 years from now. That is based on the theory that the addiction (the 'Addictive Voice') is based in the part of the brain we share with animals, so it has no concept of time. I like the RR method since it's based on brain studies and science. Unfortunately they are fanatically opposed to the 12 step program of AA. Rational Recovery's method to deal with the addict's inner tug of war is very useful however and deserves a wider audience.
Harry