Gaining control of Compulsive Masturbation

ShadeTrenicin

ShadeTrenicin

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Hey Buddy,

Great job on the 24 days. Although I am sceptical about the whole CAM strategy I am also curious about your progress.
How are the urges on other areas, besides the CAM girls/ porn?


Good luck my friend
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Hey ShadeTrenicin

The point was to minimize the power porn or CAM girls have on me. If I M to them they become interesting or addictive, but since I stopped M to them they lost their appeal. I can resist the edge to watch porn now. I wouldn't say I'm a free man yet, but I think in 4 or 5 months time I'll be able to totally eliminate porn or CAM girls from my life.

Thanks for your comment buddy!
 
ShadeTrenicin

ShadeTrenicin

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Hey Buddy,


Why is it that you are getting hard by just talking to women? Could it be a sort of fantasy taking over or are you so on edge?

Keep strong my friend
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Hey ShadeTrenicin

It's more to do with craving some sort of release. One used to blow a load at least once in every 3 days, now I'm at day 31 without MO.

Thanks for the comment buddy!
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Day 31

No porn or CAM girls for 14 days so far, I found myself craving to see just a single clip last night, managed to resist the edge at least. So I decided to wait another 7 days and see what happens.

No MO for 31 days. This has been messing up my head for way too long. Because of this MO I got a number of skin problems, the more I MO the worse they become the more I abstain from it the more they disappear.

Moving forward!
 
imsorrynotsorry

imsorrynotsorry

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Look where you are now, where you came from and where you can be in a while. You're doing good and you're improving every part of your life. Cam girls or whatever will push you down, will take something away from you, don't let them. There's no place for them ever in your life again. When you understand that deeply, it'll be easier for you the stay away from it.
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Hey imSorryNotSorry

I believe in postponing my viewing sessions until my willpower is stronger. I've been in this stage before, it took so much energy fighting the thoughts that will randomly come and go until I will finally give into the cravings. So I will keep going with this experiment until I reach 90 days without MO. Post 90 days will focus on getting rid of Porn and CAM girls for good.

Thanks for the comment buddy!
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Day 32

Made a mistake, Saturday was supposed to be my Day 30.

No masturbation, no porn or CAM girls for 16 days so far. Saw some lady I really like today, I just greeted her! Just wish it was totally easy for me to go and have a talk with her.

Moving forward!
 
ShadeTrenicin

ShadeTrenicin

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Hey BabySteps, you are going in the right direction my friend! Keep going like this and one day you will just walk up to her and have a talk with her!

I'm rooting for you
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Hey ShadeTrenicin

Thanks for the comment buddy!

Day 34

No masturbation, no porn or CAM girls, cravings come and go!

My concentration has improved a bit, I hope by the end of this year it will be a productive level. I am more confident I can bit this MO addiction this days.

Moving forward!
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Day 37

"...In addition, without a sexual addiction, you?ll have more energy and time to make friends and enjoy hobbies. It?s also very likely that you?ll increase your income. If I can do it, so can you. It?s the difference between being enslaved and being free. Which do you choose?" Breaking the cycle.

I choose freedom!
 
imsorrynotsorry

imsorrynotsorry

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You're doing great BabySteps.
Never forget to be vigilante at this stage. It's only working so good because you behave so good, so keep up the focus, will you?
 
ShadeTrenicin

ShadeTrenicin

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BabySteps said:
Day 37

"...In addition, without a sexual addiction, you?ll have more energy and time to make friends and enjoy hobbies. It?s also very likely that you?ll increase your income. If I can do it, so can you. It?s the difference between being enslaved and being free. Which do you choose?" Breaking the cycle.

I choose freedom!
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Hey Buddy, good for you!

I would like to offer an alternative approach on that quote with regard to the being enlaved is that you are now getting more and more able to choose for you personal and emotional wellfare and not be ensnared by superficial things in general. You choose for you and you alone. The ability to be content with just being yourself is the greatest freedom of all.


Keep it up, but as Imsorr said; remain vigilant.


Good luck my friend
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Hey imSorryNotSorry

I'll try my best to remain vigilant. I'm just humbled.

Hey ShadeTrenicin

I'm just humbled by my experience with this compulsive behavior.

Thanks very much guys for your comments much appreciated!!
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Day 42

No masturbation, no orgasm

I just want to keep going and growing stronger day by day. I know the edge can hit me hard when I least expect, but I'll keep focusing on the goal.

Moving forward!
 
BabySteps

BabySteps

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Day 45

No masturbation, no orgasm, cravings are just there.

I feel great for having reached this point.

Moving forward with hope!
 
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