Hey Ezel, thanks man.
but I will choose to orgasm with my woman over porn any day of the week...
I absolutely agree with this, but the reason I'm doing this is twofold.
Firstly, and most importantly, I still feel I'm rebooting just like you and everyone else here, thus, I need to stop or decrease my orgasms as much as possible. And yes, even though my dick is mostly working, he's not at a hundred percent, especially to the sensations of touch, thus, I want to hurry up this process. I should have done this way back when I first started this reboot eight months ago, but whatever, it is what it is and it's kind of fun to experiment with it now! To clarify, there's definitely nothing wrong with getting off with my partner, and if I happened to accidentally , I would just laugh. However, I do want to try this for the challenge of it, and it is challenging!
Secondly, there is some benefit to not getting off all the time when you have sex, at least for me. There is a certain high I get from the experience of having sex with no orgasm that is hard to explain, but in some ways, it is even better than an orgasm, almost spiritual! As I'm writing this now I still feel some of its effects and it has been hours ago. For example, I feel slight shivers running down my arms and a lot "energy" around my dick and I feel it going up my back. What exactly this is I have no idea. I'm sure a doctor would give me some "scientific" reason, and a spiritual guru would say its my spiritual qi or something, but it matters not to me - It's just a great sensation and I like it. After I have an orgasm, I often feel tired and lethargic afterwards, but not after doing this.
Don't get my wrong, I love orgasms as much as the next dude, however, since I'm trying to reboot like everyone else here, it's nice to be in control of it for a while. Let's be honest, having the discipline to take control of this, especially when you're having sex, makes you feel like a king! (as you would say
). Further, if you can control this, well, you can control about anything else in your life. Personally, I can't think of anything harder to say no to!!
I hope that explains your question.
Stay strong man!