674 days sober
4 days no MO
Very kind
@Blondie . Thanks for your support. Knowing you have my back is very reassuring. For the avoidance of doubt I have yours too.
Little bit of news. The first steps back to intimacy were taken this morning. This is using the Sensate Focus program where step one is just touching but no genitalia. This was hard for Mrs GBS. It’s a big step when you’re naked in front of your spouse for the first time in nearly two years. It went very well. I controlled myself well and we both were the receiver and the giver. Lasted 30 minutes or so. Progress. Afterwards she declared it was difficult for her but she got through it. A few triggers for her but she combatted them. We will do it again soon she said. No ticker tape parade gents, just a tiny whoop I reckon.
We persevere.