my journey, 25, male, PMO since ~11, 100% ED, done with this shit forever, it did enough harm

swimmer97

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Day 178

Had sucesfull sex with my gf using viagra saturday and also today (sunday) not using it.

My horniness is at around 30-40% but i am able to still get strong erections form touch and feel

It is getting better.

Real sex is indeed a completely different sport than porn. and i love it. i want to become good at it.

there is light at the end of the tunnel
 

swimmer97

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Day 180

Had the appointment with my family doctor.

I didnt expect much but i was still disappointed. The only reason i took this appointment is because she told me that she is currently educating herself in the field of sextherapy.

She had unfortunately no idea about PIED and told me that my fetishes are my true sexuality and that i should fantasize about these during sex to help me get aroused. Well, i sure will not do that. She did not really believe that fetished can be porn induced or more escalated due to porn.

I was polite and just agreed and answered her questions but she unfortunately had no idea about this topic i quickly realized. It is okay tho, it was worth a try.
 

Blondie

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She had unfortunately no idea about PIED and told me that my fetishes are my true sexuality and that i should fantasize about these during sex to help me get aroused. Well, i sure will not do that. She did not really believe that fetished can be porn induced or more escalated due to porn.
Sorry to hear about this @swimmer97. It's fucking crazy that these "professionals" don't understand the basics of addiction behavior, and how things might just progress further, and that our so called "tastes" might just evolve from that and NOT the other way around.

It is what it is though.

Keep going man.
 

Androg

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If only human sexuality "worked" the way our sexologists wished it did....

Life would be so simple if all you had to do was turn up the heat to "fix" everything. Alas, they just don't seem to get it that today's porn-delivery is such a powerful sexual-conditioning agent that users can actually hit a point of diminishing returns and end up with sexual dysfunction.

Someday....
 

swimmer97

Well-Known Member
Day 185

Had sucessfull sex with my GF (using viagra), had strong erections and we had we had sex 2 times.

I dont want to depend on viagra forever but right now i see it as a usefull tool in this early rewiring stage as it gives me self confidense and the orgasms help me rewire me to normal sex.

Since i have a gf, porn is at least right now no longer present in my head at any point in time. thankfully.

lets keep going.
 

AJ7

Active Member
Day 185

Had sucessfull sex with my GF (using viagra), had strong erections and we had we had sex 2 times.

I dont want to depend on viagra forever but right now i see it as a usefull tool in this early rewiring stage as it gives me self confidense and the orgasms help me rewire me to normal sex.

Since i have a gf, porn is at least right now no longer present in my head at any point in time. thankfully.

lets keep going.
Hey @swimmer97. That’s awesome news man. Just wondering if you have ever tried Kegel exercises? I have done them in the past and I’ve been doing them consistently for a couple weeks now and have noticed improvements downstairs. Not saying this is the golden solution (I know the flatline process has to run its course) but I think it’s a good way of strengthening the muscles down there. & sorry if you already mentioned this on your previous posts and I missed it.
 
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swimmer97

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Hey @swimmer97. That’s awesome news man. Just wondering if you have ever tried Kegel exercises? I have done them in the past and I’ve been doing them consistently for a couple weeks now and have noticed improvements downstairs. Not saying this is the golden solution (I know the flatline process has to run its course) but I think it’s a good way of strengthening the muscles down there. & sorry if you already mentioned this on your previous posts and I missed it.
Thannk you for this advice @AJ7, i have read about these in some threads but never actually informed myself about this. I will do this now. Cheers!
 
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