Thank you for your endorsement @Nico. It's a very simple idea. I developed it only through this writing, and probably can expand it further. it breaks down cost and benefit by time and with emotion too. I'm sure some product supply books have it better hahaI love that 6P model, its way better than the pros and cons I usually use. I am sure there is the potential for a course or book about that? How to make better decisions and change bad habits..or something lol. And 3W - ok I don't have a wife but the wait and why is great
Further on good and bad.PREFERENCE FOR THE BAD (NOT GOOD)
There is nothing wrong with the bad. Nature is. Neutral between good and bad. Bad can simply be not good, and good is not bad.
What is bad?
Not as I desired or expected
Something I was not prepared for
Something that causes unpleasentness.
But what is also bad?
An opportunity to recognize something I've missed
An opportunity for good to happen.
Every addiction is a practice of avoidance. It is the seeking of an ideal state without regard of reality.
But be too good at avoiding the imperfect will leave the person
Unable to deal with reality
Unable to see opportunity
Unable to improve their life.
So I don't want to avoid the bad anymore.
I will embrace it with new perspective.
Every bad thing is an opportunity to become good.
I have some caveats though.
Someone else's opinion on what is good and bad, I will reflect and ultimately decide what is it I want to do. I will never follow through blindly without consideration.
I like the bad as much as the good.
It makes me creative
It makes me consider more things
It gives me opportunity to improve my life.
I will embrace both the bad and good on equal terms.