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Ok, So I and my partner have read the brain that changes itself. I have the Love you hate the porn book , my partner has not read it yet I am after books that are basic for him to understand the process, understand what is happening to him, he has downloaded ever accountable and for the first...

Hey guys, found this on fight the new drugs facebook page today. Thought it may be helpful. http://fightthenewdrug.org/finally-help-for-women-betrayed-by-their-partners-porn-addiction/

Unlike a lot of the partners here. My battle has been not only with side effects of my partners addiction, it has been getting him to truthfully acknowledge he has one. Having a partner who refuses to see the true depths of his own problem, let alone getting him to see what it does to me. And as...

I think everyone needs a safe place to be able to express themselves. I know I have posted in here in times when I have been busting at the seams angry and hurt by this experience. I have had some helpful advice, understanding partners compassionate responses  as well as some insightful advice...

So here we are. Hitting the 2 year mark that I found the problem to our problems. And here I am again. Back. I don't exactly know what to say. WTF. WT ACTUAL FUCK. 2 years ago I was looking for a medical answer as to why my partner could at that stage of our relationship. About 18 months in. Had...

So, my man and I decided the last year was shit. And we love eachother enough to start over. So what does that mean? Well from my perspective it was for him to stop the covering up, deleting history, to me this was a greater betrayal of my trust. He still doesn't get it. Porn is just a thing...

The subject is all to familiar  amongst us partners. Somewhere in the mess of lies and deception, the bad sex, the no sex, the no affection, the disinterest, the arguements, the rage, the hurtful outburst that cut deeper than they realize the distant shell of a man we thought we knew and loved...

I haven't posted any updates for quite some time as the struggle continues and my world has also been rocked by tragedy close to home. I am desperately always seeking for ways to understand myself, my partner as well as validation I am not crazy, and hopefully tips on how to manage without...

Hey guys, I am a partner of an Aussie rebooter. Very little about the damage of porn has hit mainstream down here but it is starting! ABC MONDAY 9.30PM EST check it out! Also the HACK on triple J radio is talking about it daily at 5.30pm EST in the lead up to Mondays show. This is exciting. And...

Worth a read. http://www.foreverymom.com/this-moms-letter-to-her-sons-about-porn-is-something-all-our-boys-need-to-read/#.VkPrUx2qOeM.facebook

So finally after 1 year of question and wonder why did my man seem disinterested in sex with me, why when we did could I never or rarely satisfy him, why when we did was it empty, robotic, sad? Why when we did, did he not see me, but stared through me and close his eyes. Why would he prefer porn...

So I think it is time for me to step back completely and throw my hands in the air and say I am done. I made a clear decision months ago about what I wanted my life to look like in the future. I set clear boundaries of what I was willing to accept from my partner and what I was not. I made a...

I am posting this because I have had a tough couple of days. And I am saying this to all of you because sometimes we need to hear it from someone else. As I was lucky enough to have someone say it to me last night. You are beautiful, you are strong, you are loving and compassionate. These traits...

Hey guys. I am writing this, not as someone with a SO that has overcome PA, far from it. As a couple he hods the future of us in his hands. And he is far from out of the pit. More like someone sludging out of the edges, and moving forward, but I am anticipating him getting tired of fighting and...

I have always preached so well. Dealing with this hell inside seen my normally positive focus and attitude take a beating and swing like crazy and land belly up in a depressive negative state of mind and wasting focus and energy on not accepting what I alone can not change. In doing so I made...

I am wanting ro help my partners addiction. If he decides to reboot which will be the only way we will still be partners, my question is... he suffers from delayed ejaculation. Will sex with me need to stop? I am worried that will just turn him back to porn? As a female the whole hard mode, soft...

Ok people please helpe out. As this is my final attempt to get ackledgement and admission of addiction from my SO I need some help setting some boundaries. I run a business that requires me from 6am to noon and 4 to 8. My SO plays house husband and gets the kids off to school. From then he is...