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Does anyone else feel like this? If I've been very horny for a while on my reboot, I fairly quickly lose the erection I had but remain turned on and develop a feeling of pressure in my perineum, behind my dick and an increased need to pee. This can last hours. It's a bit uncomfortable, I'm...

Odd thread title I realise, but it occurred to me today how creepy it can seem to get an erection from looking at a girl might seem, but what a positive achievement it can be as well! I was in a coffee shop and sat down, unawares, across from a very cute girl. We met eyes a couple of times...

So I was on day 70 and was very proud I was on my way to 90 and beyond but I messed up. I had been quite horny yesterday, but managed to avoid looking at porn or masturbating though the day. I went to bed and did my usual of applying some vitamin E cream to my bits (really helps with the skin!)...

It'll be day 40 tomorrow, could very nearly have been day 1! I got set off through thoughts of massage for a bad back I have... one thing led to another and I was reading masseuse stories of clients who'd got boners on their tables. Then I saw a few dodgy, but censored, massage videos on...

I was talking pretty dirty to a girl I quite like last night, she was masturbating and I helped her finish but I never did anything to myself. I'm 11 days in since my last relapse, would this talking be considered a need to reset or is it just a slap on the wrist and don't do it again? Haha

Feel kinda like shit now as I know I have a horrible slow climb back up the numbers to come. For weeks I'd felt completely in control but then little urges began to flare up. I started to crave contact with girls, like I was healing and wanted to seek their company. So I allowed myself to join...

I've had a poor record with my rebooting so far in terms of relapses into MO, but am currently at my best streak yet of 55 days and I'm feeling 100% in control, like I could do another 55 without even thinking about it. I had hoped to get to at least 120 days. However, an opportunity has arisen...

Sadly, given many relapses over many months, I have yet to complete a 90 day run. But today I'm on 41 days, which is my best yet and I am determined to make this work now to 90 days and beyond, I won't end it there. I feel I have learned enough to do it now. My only slips on this streak have...

I've been aware of rebooting now for around 240 days, ish. I've been trying my best but keep making a mess of things. It took me a while to realise what I can and can't do, that my issues probably relate to things other than porn itself - the other sex substitutes like sexting etc. I've been...

I'm at a point in my rebooting where I'm wanting to hang out and meet new girls, do some rewiring and increase my confidence. But I'm wondering where the line is in terms of looking at people's profiles... mostly it's entirely innocent, scrolling through and looking for girls I find attractive...

Just a quick post, last night I got sent a picture of a girl I've been re-wiring with. It was a cleavage picture and I got quite aroused and sent her a picture back. I had been being very good and had put a stop to sexting, so I was a little disappointed, but I know I didn't initiate the...

I've been rebooting since July this year and have come from a point where I was suffering from a totally dead penis with a wonderful girl. Since then I haven't touched any porn at all and have only slipped and MO'd twice. During this time I have however made contact with girls online, including...

When I started off a couple of months ago I didn't feel how I feel now with regards to sex and girls. I came from a position of not having had many partners, I hadn't had sex in years, had little confidence through ED issues and was comfortable going through life just satisfying myself with...

This might be more for those who rebooted whilst single, but I was curious as to how people have felt when going into a sexual situation when they have rebooted after previously suffering from ED. Are we talking major anxiety? Constant checking that yep - it's still hard? Or did it just work...

So a weird thing just happened that has never happened to me before. I'm about 35 days no porn, 21 days no MO and I just got through a day where I was feeling pretty horny, mainly due to seeing girls out enjoying the summer sun. I've been in bed for 20 minutes going to sleep and started having...

Getting a few weeks into my reboot now and I keep getting feelings of doubt over whether this will help my ED or not. I keep trying to read people's success stories, which helps so much, but I always find my positivity falling away and just feel like when I next get with a girl things still...

I'm on day 11 of a reboot and I think I might be entering a flatline period. From peoples accounts, it seems around day 10 is the average that it begins. I spent yesterday very horny, I was constantly aware of my dick moving in my trousers just from walking even, I had dirty thoughts in my head...

I'm about a week into a reboot, I'm highly motivated to get this right and haven't looked at anything that could be considered pornographic and I haven't masturbated at all. I've been feeling good about what I'm doing if anything and actually contacted an old female 'friend' as I felt I would at...

Had to chip in to this site as I have found it extremely inspiring and comforting to read peoples accounts and also the YBOP book. I'm 35 and have spent the majority of my time over the past 12 years or so single for a variety of reasons. Previously I'd had normal, healthy sex, but during these...